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5 Love Languages: Gifts Self Talk

Episode Summary

Do you care for yourself, or do you have expectation of self? The host of Chai Beauty discusses the theme of gift-giving, emphasizing the importance of giving thoughtful gifts that don't cause financial strain. The script explores the idea of self-love through acts of self-gifting, such as buying gadgets or flowers, to uplift oneself during tough times. The host encourages viewers to practice self-care and recognize their own worth.

Episode Notes

The Art of Self-Gifting: Embracing Self-Love Through Thoughtful Acts

 

In this episode of Chai Beauty, the host discusses the importance of self-love and the significance of gifting oneself. Highlighting the common misinterpretation of gifts in relationships, the host stresses the value of expressing love for oneself through simple, mindful gestures. Personal anecdotes about purchasing gadgets and flowers emphasize the beauty of self-care and the necessity of acknowledging one's own worth. The message encourages listeners to reflect on how they can better show love to themselves daily.

 

00:00 Welcome to Chai Beauty

00:37 Understanding the Concept of Gifts

01:58 Personal Experiences with Self-Gifting

03:16 The Importance of Self-Love

03:37 Reflecting on Self-Gifting

Episode Transcription

Hi!  I'm so happy you're here.  Welcome to Chai Beauty, where I get to share my thoughts, my dreams, my aspirations, my visions for the future. And guess what?  You get to be along for this journey. Because we are in this together. 

 

So, we have talked about acts of service. We're now moving on to gifts.  And I think we have...  sort of taking gifts out of context. In some ways. We just expect that if you love someone, um, you should give gifts and extravagant gifts that potentially could put someone in a financial bind, make them sacrifice a lot of and. 

 

Again, going back to what I said prior, gifts are great, and they can make a lot of statements when you deliver a gift. And when you think about those statements that people give you, I want you to check to see have you declared love for yourself? Have you declared that I am special, I am kind, I am caring, I am, I am the cream of the cream. 

 

I am the icing on the cake.For me, I like cookies, oh well, chocolate chip to be exact, but I think what I have done is each year. I, I love gadgets, so like I have a lot of knickknacks, paddywhacks, all in my house, so there's always a gadget and so throughout the years I've always just bought myself a gadget that I've spied for like three to six months, I've watched YouTube videos on it sometimes or I've just been around someone that had the gadget for a while and I buy at least one gadget a year and that's how I give, give a gift to myself  and as I've gotten older and continue the theme of like learning how to dance in the rain. 

 

Um, I started going to farmers markets or to the grocery store just to purchase flowers to put in my house for those days when I like to wake up and I'm sad or like I just woke up on the wrong side of the bed. I just want to tell myself.  I love you; I see you, and we may not be where we are today, but just like this flower, the seasons will change, and we will be where we need to be.

 

So just hold on and love yourself, cause we're almost there.  So, have you loved yourself today?  Have you taken a moment to gift yourself with something?  To say I'm here? Thanks for watching! Be sure to subscribe for more videos like this Winter is coming!