You are not alone but you can choose to be along, but you must remember avarice can be a sin because you are limit your ability. you must rely on others and ask for help.
Hi! I'm so happy you're here. Welcome to Chai Beauty, where I get to share my thoughts, my dreams, my aspirations, my visions for the future, and guess what? You get to be along for this journey, because we are in this together. Today, we'll be talking about Type.
5. The Investigator. Analytical, detached, and private. They are motivated by a need to gain knowledge and conserve energy and avoid relying on others. Type 5. Avarice. Fie towards those things they believe will ensure they can live an independent, self-sustaining existence. This withholding ultimately leads to their holding back love and affection for others.
It is okay to try to figure things out on your own. What's not okay is to get to a point in your life when you just don't know what you want anymore, and you don't know how to ask for help. Asking for help does not make you weak. I've learned that asking for help makes you stronger because you're doing the first step admitting that you've done all you can, or you've thought of everything you know how and it's not working, and you just need someone to show you the way.
But if you think that's a quick, that that's a quick fix, it's not. It takes time, it takes energy, it takes consistency, it takes believing in yourself when no one else believes in you to realize that your fruits of your labor will show. It just takes time. And sometimes when you're trying to do things on your own, It's not possible.
It takes multiple hands to be there and say, I got you, but to have those people in your life to say that you got, that got you, you have to be vulnerable with them to say, I need your help. No one in this world is a mind reader. No matter how we wish they could be, how we wish they can just look at you and understand everything that's in your heart and your soul, but they're not.
And you can't hoard knowledge and hoard things that make you feel good at that time and hope it lasts forever because nothing lasts forever. It's all about you and choosing how you're going to be happy. Choosing how you're going to take that energy, that knowledge, that skill to make something so beautiful that you can give it to the world, but as well as.
Just to say, like, this skill, this knowledge, this energy didn't just come from me. It came from others before me, beside me, and eventually in the future that will keep it going. But for you to get to that place, the first thing you have to do is to rely on others and to ask for help.
Relying on someone does not make you weak. Relying on someone does not.
Discount your ideals, your values, or thoughts. It actually makes you stronger. It makes you realize that everything in this world is connected, and you can't do anything alone. If you haven't gotten that message throughout the last episodes, then you need to re here this. We are all connected. We are a, we are a unit, and we can never ever truly do anything alone.
You can do something impactful. I'm not saying one man can't change the world. But for it to sustain and last long, well it takes... People coming together from past, present, and future to keep that goal in their mind. To make other people that have come off course back into our past so that we can move forward.
You have to think that relying on someone is only giving them a seat at your table. Whether it's for a short time or a long time. But wherever that might be, you need to realize that You remember those times where you didn't have a seat at the table. And now you do, so what do you do with that power?
Relying on someone is just extending them a chair to say, I have done all that I can by myself, but I need your help to, to move on.
Do not hurt your feelings, do not say that I'm going to hold this all in and all these things that I have done, I will be satisfied. Do not think you have all the answers. Do not feel that you have to stay in this one spot because this one spot has always given you fulfillment. So, if I move too far to the left or too far to the right, up or down, that I will lose something.
That is not true. Do not hoard. Do not hoard things. Do not become obsessive in things. Do not. Realize that this one thing made me happy, so let me buy abundance of it. Take a step back and realize that when you look in the mirror and you're facing your true self, you are enough. You are the person that may not know the answers, but you are intelligent and incapable of finding the answers, whether that is spiritually, mentally, emotionally, or physically.
Or any other ways.
Take a second to honestly think that you can rely on others, because you can rely on others. You just have to choose the right people to rely on, the right people to cry on, the right people to hold you up when your legs are a little wobbly. The right people to say, hey, I wrote this, and I don't know how this will portray me, but you have my best, my worst, my ugly, and not so great image of me.
Can you write this for me? Because you would know what I truly mean and don't hold me to a caliber that is not realistic for me. You also can give me advice that no one else can. So, thank you for relying on another person. Thank you for letting people come into your life that you can rely on, whether you agree or not agree.
But you do need to take those moments and realize you're not alone in anything that you do.
So. All this is saying is a Type 5 and a 7 taking this advice, take a deep breath. You're good, you're healthy, and you're here. You don't have all the answers, but you do have a circle around you that can find you the answer or lead you to the right path of the answer. You will be satisfied. Your fear will let go eventually.
But the first step is to say, to let go of all that fear, is to say, I don't have the answers. I need to rely on someone.
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